Yep.
That’s right.
Yesterday was my 37th Birthday.
So happy birthday, to me.
*Disclaimer*
You should probably know that I was NOT going to post that video. However, I ultimately decided that I should, as per a conversation I had with a very dear friend of mine, Ron, author of the blog, Vent.
And here’s why….
In Ron’s post, he wrote a few things about blogging and why it’s important to stay ‘True To Yourself.’ And quite frankly, he inspired me to be bold.
Here’s an excerpt:
RON: “You unconsciously start grading yourself on how good or bad your posts are by the amount of comments you get. Slowly, you begin to question what you share because you don’t want to lose readers. And then before you know it, you’re not writing your blog to express your voice anymore….you’re tailoring it to your readers; trying to please everyone.”
ME: Oh yes. Been there. Done that. But after five years, I’ve also learned, I can’t possibly please everyone. And now I am back to writing about what I want, when I want to write. If I don’t get a lot of comments on a particular post, that does not equate to failure.
RON: “Don’t ever be afraid to take chances and share topics you assume your readers may not enjoy or initially understand. Because not only will you be denying your voice, but also the chance for your readers to discover something they might have never known.”
ME: I love that. Love that. I have been contemplating about posting a very personal video on my birthday, but I was feeling VERY hesitant about it, because I don’t want my readers to assume I am either conceited, overly narcissistic, or obnoxious, for posting a video of pictures of myself. But after reading this? I feel much more confident about giving it a shot. Thank you, my dear friend. Thank you.
So, I listened to Ron’s advice. And I took a chance. Hope you enjoyed.
* waits nervously for responses *
Thank you, Boom Boom!
🙂
Oh I did party like I was 21.
And, um… Quite frankly, I can’t do that anymore!!
It’s been two days and I am STILL hung-over.
UGH!
Congrats on being married that long!
Thank you, Linda R!
🙂
Happy Birthday Beautiful!
For some reason i always thought we were the same age, but it appears i have 5 years on you. Do you like older men?
p.s. I still cant comment on your blog anymore from work… damn disqus bullcrap!
Sorry about that!
And, yes. I do like older men.
🙂
Love that video so much *giggle* Always be true to yourself – you are fantastic the way you are. Happy Birthday dear Meleah. You are beautiful inside and out XXXXXXXXXXXXX
Thanks, Selma!
xoxoox
I… Love… THIS!!!!!! I think I’m falling for you! 😉
Well, you already said you’d marry me, and I am going to hold you to that promise!
First things first: HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MELEAH! I don’t even remember 37…but then again I don’t remember last night! (Rimshot) I’m really glad you took Ron’s advice, I loved the pictures you put up! The last one is a classic as is the smoking in front of the no smoking sign! I hope you had a great birthday, yesterday and thanks for posting all the pictures!
Aw. Thank you, Marty!
It’s the leg lamp! And my bestie. Love you, lady 🙂
Ahahahhah!
I love you SOFA KING much!
Cannot wait to spend the 1st weekend in November with you!
I don’t think you’re conceited at all. I enjoyed your video montage (although I would love to hear the stories behind some of those photos). Happy birthday! To me, you are still a young chick.
Thanks, Anne!
xoxo
What pictures would you like to hear about? Maybe I will post those photos individually, with the stories behind them?
You simply sparkle in that video. I love the choice of photos and music. I’m so glad you posted this!
Aw! Thanks Sis!
Oh, I can’t believe I missed your birthday! Happy belated birthday, Meleah! You’re gorgeous, by the way, and perfect, just the way you are.
Good God, Meleah! Could you be more conceited, overly narcissistic, or obnoxious?
I’m glad you are, and I’m glad your video covered the range of you, from childhood to maturity, and from bikinis to sitting on the can.
You are yourself, and you can’t help it. We’re all very glad. Happy Birthday.
Aw! Why thank you, Ziva!
So are YOU my friend. So are you!
Ahahahahhahhah!
Thanks MWJ!
That comment cracked me the f*ck up!
Don’t you LOVE Ron?! Girl, you are fabulous, gorgeous, tough, funny and completely uniquely PERFECT as YOU. I love the additions to this..even the painful pictures. You Are FABULOUS.
You are beautiful inside and out! Happy Birthday, my friend!
Ron rocks!
And so do YOU!
Thanks, Terri!!
xoxoxo
Oh man, I LOVE this video! (Total side note that’s all about me and not you: As of this comment I have left 900 comments through Disqus. Way to go, me!)
Back to you: I love this video so much and I do think it took a lot of courage to post it. I cannot imagine doing something like that with my mug; I’m definitely too insecure. Happy birthday!
CG/Kelly,
Thank you for understanding it really DID take a lot of courage to make this video AND to post it!
I’m super glad you enjoyed it.
xoxoxo
Well, first of all, a belated Happy Birthday. Sorry to be late to your party. Regarding the video, I enjoyed it … you have an amazing assortment of personas and looks. I agree with Ron, if we stay too cautious, our posts become stale. That’s something you never do.
Well, first of all, a belated Happy Birthday. Sorry to be late to your party. Regarding the video, I enjoyed it … you have an amazing assortment of personas and looks. I agree with Ron, if we stay too cautious, our posts become stale. That’s something you never do.
Thanks, Bud!
Happy birthday lady! Sorry I’m so late to the party. 😀
Honesty goes a long way, keep on writing as you do Meleah… and Happy 37th!
The double middle fingers salute at the end? Priceless 🙂
Thanks sweetheart!
Aw. Thanks, Rog!
Thank you, Doc!
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