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I Could…

I could write this blog post about how amazing things have been, ever since the day my boyfriend came into my life. But, that would take forever. And it’s enough already with the fairy dust and rainbows.

I could write about how from the moment I met Sonny, I knew he was ‘The One’ I’ve been looking for my whole life. But, that just sounds too corny.

I could regale you with tales of ‘All Things Romantic.’ But, that might embarrass him.

I could write about all of the things we have in common or about how easy it is for the both of us to share everything with each other. Or, I could write about how liberating it is to be truly vulnerable with someone. I could write about how freeing it is to expose all of your darkest secrets and deepest fears – and still feel completely loved and never feel judged. But I can’t find the words big enough to properly express that.

I could write about how Sonny knows exactly how to make me feel better when I am having a bad day. And how I am able to do the same for him. Or, I could write about how much fun we have together and how I feel like Sonny is also my very best friend.

I could write about the time we took a six hour drive [with my son] back and forth from Harrisburg PA, for one of my many family functions. Or, how my favorite moment was when we all sang, ‘Your Eyes’ by Elton John together.

I could write about all of the dinners we’ve shared together with my family and his family and how seamlessly we fit into each other’s lives.

I could write about how I fall deeper in love with him every day.
[Even though sometimes I want to choke him.]

I could write about how much he makes me feel beautiful [inside and out] on a daily basis. Or, I could write about how Sonny likes to try and embarrass me in stores by saying inappropriate things LOUDLY.

I could write about how I know Sonny and I will be together forever because we are currently in the middle the world’s toughest ‘Relationship Endurance Test’ of our lives and we haven’t killed each other.

But instead of writing about any of that – I’m just going to say I’ve never been so in love or so happy in my whole life.


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  • Happy Turkey Day, and I am so happy for you, RLBFF. 🙂

    Love, “Album”

  • Oh oh, can I be your first house guest? 😉

  • Meleah

    Awww! Album!!
    {ahahahahaha I haven’t called you THAT in YEARS}
    You better be my first sleep-over House Guest! Because YOU need to come to my Alec Baldwin Oscar Party this January! Happy TDAY! xoxo

  • So awesome love. I’m so happy for you. Happy Thanksgiving!

  • Congratulations! I’m so happy for you!

  • I think this is AWESOME! I think it is great that people still “find” each other…and that you support each other….how wonderful. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your whole family……and I am a little pissed that this is the first i”m hearing about the “Alec Baldwin” Oscar party. I think if you have a party in my beloved’s name — you should at least tell me…or invite me, dammit!!!!!

  • Meleah

    Cute Ella:
    I love you! Thanks sweetness!


    You are SOOO invited! I want to have an Oscar Party only because ALEC is HOSTING this year! And even though I am in LOVE with Sonny, I will always be “married” to Alec!

    But, in all seriousness…

    Ladies and Gents, the reason I feel like I am currently in the middle the world’s toughest ‘Relationship Endurance Test’ of my life? Ever since his car accident, Sonny and I have been together for twenty-four hours a day, for fourteen days IN A ROW (and counting) without ever being separated (except to use the restroom). And we have basically been trapped within the confines of my 4×4 tiny purple bedroom walls. Yeah.

    We have been staying at my house [with my parents, and my son, and Poppa Sye] Can you say CROWDED much? This house is way too small for SIX PEOPLE!

    I also feel a little bit like my life has been temporarily HIJACKED because of the countless doctor’s appointments: Chiropractors, Orthopedics, MRI’s, X-Rays, Physical Therapy, ect. I have never spent so much time with one person and driving to and from different offices, nor have I seen the inside of so many waiting rooms, nor have I spent so much time in such uncomfortable chairs! One would think a waiting room filled with injured people would have good seating yes?

    Now, please don’t get me wrong, I have actually enjoyed playing nurse and I had no idea I could be such an amazing caregiver (*pats self on back*) but I don’t think I’ve ever spent this much time with ANYONE!

    Considering I have been SINGLE for most of my ADULT life, and considering I LIVE for my ALONE time, this has been quite an experience for me. I can honestly say, thank god I am in LOVE with Sonny because if this were any other man? I would have probably committed murder by now.

    In all honesty, I’m quite SURPRISED because it hasn’t been THAT much of a struggle to be with The Same Person for this many hours/days IN A ROW.

    In fact, it’s made me much more confident ABOUT moving in with him. Hell, at least THEN we will have enough space to sit in different rooms!

  • I am so loving this. So happy for you both. Yay! Have a wonderful time moving, even though it can be so unsettling. It’ll be fun to put it all back together again in a new shared space. Just make sure he gets rid of all his ugly guy furniture and model car collections. hehe Just kidding!

  • I don’t get it.

    You, what, like this guy or something?

    You women can be so vague.

    Happy Thanksgiving.

  • Meleah

    Aw! Honey! I miss you!
    I am VERY excited about my Big Move Thankfully he does NOT have too many ugly things that I need to get rid of! xoxo

    Yeah, I suppose I COULD have been more clear about that!

  • Ohhh that’s wonderful news.

    I know I don’t visit you very often but I am so pleased I did today, always great to read happy news 🙂

  • Best wishes in all Meleah! Happy Thanksgiving 🙂

  • cmk

    Ahem…don’t I remember SOMEONE *cough ME cough* telling you at some point in time (actually SEVERAL points in time) that everything happens for a reason at the time it is supposed to? And that anyone as amazing as you are WILL have great things happen to you? I couldn’t be happier for you if you were my own daughter! I only wish for your continued happiness. Love you. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  • Meleah

    Why Thank You! Im glad you stopped by today too!

    You’re the best!

    I totally believe that EVERYTHING really DOES happen for a REASON! And just so you know, you made me TEAR up when you said, ” I couldn’t be happier for you if you were my own daughter!” I LOVE YOU!!

  • Congrats on the new step! Love the blog 🙂

  • zwiggy

    Thats pure bullshit, I live for this stuff..its excuse after excuse why you cant write and moving is not one of them. treat sonny like a pack mule and strap the shit to his back and make him move it that will give you time to blog.I need it ever since i moved away, this is the only way i find out about what he is up to.
    ps please ask him about “the son set by the sea” and what a pussy he was.
    also make him show you his beatles pictures of him

  • BK

    That’s great news! Wishing you an early Happy Thanksgiving. May you, Sonny and all your families be blessed with a great Thanksgiving.

  • Meleah

    Aw. Thank you and the same to you! I hope you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving!


    Mr Zwiggy!
    Ahahahha ahahahah ahahahah!!

    I’m not making excuses! I just haven’t had time to write! Seriously, since the accident? I’ve been driving his ass all over town for days, to thousands of doctors visits! I haven’t even been ON my COMPUTER until today! But I promise I will CONTINUE to update this BLOG and OFTEN – JUST FOR YOU! And, I will post at least once or twice more before we move.

    AND…if you really want/need more updates about Sonny, just see MY FACEBOOK page! I update that constantly. There are even updated PHOTOS of Sonny on Facebook. So feel free to go nuts over there! Seriously, there will be Thanksgiving Day Photos taken at his Sister Suzy’s House – ALL DAY LONG!

    Anyway, I have definitely seen those photos you are talking about. I think. Are they the ones hanging all over his mother’s house?

    [Speaking of photos hanging all over his moms house, Sonny and I have a baby picture story for you. Apparently, him and I looked the EXACT SAME when we were little. We both had the same white hair, the same smiling eyes with long black lashes, the same chin, the same smile, the same nose…ect. The first time Sonny was in my bedroom and saw a baby picture of ME, he wanted to know where and how I got a baby picture of HIM. I am not even kidding. My mother had to convince Sonny that was ME in the picture and then she had to SWEAR on everything holy she did not have ANY OTHER children! I promise you, at one point [AFTER we move] I will post the Side by Side comparison of the two baby pictures and YOU try and figure out who is who!]

    Yes, in grade school Sonny had some CRAZY Beatles style haircuts! But, I loved those pictures! He WAS and still IS the most handsome man In The World. [At least to me!]

    Now I am DYING to know the “son set by the sea” story! And after he tells me HIS version, I am SO calling you to make sure he tells me the WHOLE story!! I cant even imagine Sonny acting like a p*$$y!

  • Monk

    GAME ON! Happy Thanksgiving!

  • Wow, that’s great 😀 I’m so happy for you Meleah. I’ll bet all the packing will be fun 😀

  • I have been reading about your life for some time now, and I knew THIS post would be published someday. It reads well !! 😉

    I am so happy for you Meleah! (( big hugs ))

  • It is so lovely to hear about this. I always knew in my heart you would meet ‘The One.’ It’s just so wonderful that you have. I feel like crying because I am so delighted for you. Wishing you and Sonny much happiness. Oh, and I can’t wait to see those baby pics!

    I was getting nervous reading through all of your “I coulds” and expecting bad news, but this is absolutly great! You’re like McDonalds (You Deserve a Break Today) and I think you and Sonny will have a great time together. Good luck on the new home and I hope it becomes your “Happily Ever After” saga.

    Have a great turkey day!

  • WOW Thats great honey!!!! I’m so happy for you!!!!

  • Ned

    Thanks. Same to you.

  • Meleah

    Thanks for the comment!
    And again, I had a GREAT time at dinner with you and Cindy, we will have to do that again soon!

    Ugh. Im dreading THAT!


    Ive cried tears of joy over this too! Thank you for always being such a GREAT friend to me, I love you. xoxoxo

    Awwww! You are SOFA KING awesome!
    Happy Thanksgiving!

    Thank you! Have a wonderful holiday!


  • Congrats Meleah on the co-existing. How exciting to be starting a new chapter in your life. Happy Thanksgiving My Friend, may you and your family be blessed XXXXOOOOO.

  • Well, I’m not gonna say I told you so…but I did. 😉 I knew he would show up. Never a doubt in my mind. I’m excited beyond words, honey. Many, many blessings to you both on your journey together. xoxo

  • Amy

    This is the best news I’ve heard all day. Good luck and cannot wait for the pictures!

  • Meleah

    The Girl:
    Thanks woman.
    I hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday!
    (hugs & kisses)

    YOU are the one reason I NEVER gave up on finding HIM. Thank you so much for being a part of my life. I love you forever!


    Thanks! I cant wait to POST the pictures!

  • Getting serious!!!! good for you!!!! Best of luck.

  • Jay

    Oooh! How exciting! Congratulations. 🙂

    My son’s girlfriend has finally moved over from Italy and is moving into a flat at the end of this month. So I feel the excitement for you! I’m living it for them right now! 😉

  • I could comment about how I knew you would find ‘THE’ one soon, but I won’t. I’ll just say congratulations and I’m so happy for you 🙂

  • WOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOO. I am so happy for you, and Sonny is one lucky dude 🙂

  • Meleah

    Thanks man!

    Awww! Congrats to them!!

    Thank you!


    Yes HE is!

  • I could tell you that I am INSANELY happy for you and that I am thrilled that things are going so well. Oh…what the hell…I WILL tell you! Yay! Congrats.

  • Wish you two the best of luck!

  • I, for one, can ALWAYS use some fairy dust and rainbows.

    They go GREAT with a nice whiskey.

  • Congratulations & well done Sonny for nabbing a great lady! 😉

  • Meleah

    Aw. Thanks love.


    You rock.

    Yes they do indeed!


    Awwww. *blushing*

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